forgive

i know it's too late to say happy new year. i hope this year will be an extreme makeover.i miss my blog.i would like to speak about forgiveness.can we forgive all the time and no matter the pain caused by a person ? "we have to forgive" . "everyone has right to have the second chance".these phrases sounds perfect but does we do this all the time? i guess no, sometimes we are unfair with " forgiveness " cause we can give it to the wrong person.in fact , forgiveness can be used against us when it is given to some kind of persons that their job is to use the forgiveness of the others for theirs benefit or to give pain. besides, we can give the "second chance" to one and we connot give it to the other one.so, we unfair with "forgiveness". everybody can make mistake but do all mistakes can be forgiven ? really , i would like to know " forgiveness" is based on what? based on reason , the person , the situation or just forgive.

for me , depends on the person's intention.it's hard to forgive a pain caused by an expected person as a close friend, relatives or your beloved.to be hurted from a close person who knows you it's so painful cause the word " close" means he knows what can bother you so he has to be aware of his deeds except when his intentions is to help in this situation i have to forgive with no reasons. i hope if i can forgive all the time but sometimes pains are stronger than me ,so, only time can erease it.